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FOTOFRIDAY: Christmas, Christmas…Wherefore Art Thou?

Posted on: Friday, December 20th, 2024
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IMG_7438.jpegChristmas in my world shrinks every year, including the present pile, as family passes on or ventures afar. But the memories live on, and a little color and light still help make the dark season bright.

Do you remember sliding down the stairway to see what Santa brought? Feasting all day with mountains of homemade family specialties? Shopping and wrapping for months? Concerts and festivals and parties and gatherings that assured you were exhausted by 12-26 and had 5-10 extra pounds by 12-31?

Many…most?…people do. Even those of different (or no) faith embraced the Christmas spirit, or parts of it—and other faiths have robust year-end rituals and celebrations also.

I’ve had the great luck of spending the holiday season in many countries and locales. IMHO, even those of little faith would be moved by the smiles and songs of Caribbean islands, Mexico, and most any new, unfamiliar culture.

Well, everything changes. And Christmas has been, gradually, for a loooong time. A recent survey that got much media attention found that we should even toss the turkey! Folks would prefer pizza (44%), tacos (38%), burgers (31%), or take-out Chinese (34%). And as for attire, 47% would rather spend the day in their pajamas than dressed up.

As one who cherishes the memories of all relatives gathered and getting along convivially for festivities that went on for days, I’m sad to see the flame fade. But of course, nostalgia gets us nowhere. Most of those people have passed. And research finds that lately the holiday hugging is also scarred by the usual suspects: politics, burnout, commercialism, pressure, isolation, and on and on.

Moreover, religion and traditional rituals in general continue to diminish from most people’s priorities. A preacher from a church nearby recently told me, “You know, we have 13 ELCA Lutheran churches within 7 minutes of here. Long-term, the remaining populations, realistically, could support maybe 2 of them.”

What’s replacing that void in our communities and customs and hearts. Football? Narcissism? Screens? Taylor and Trump?

Sure. Still, I hope everyone finds something to believe in that’s more than all that, bigger than themselves, and brings peace and love to kinfolk and beyond.

In other words, keep the faith.

PS Happy Solstice!

New Burnout Study Suggests BreakAway Urgency

Posted on: Thursday, December 19th, 2024
Posted in: HR FYI, Rants & Roadkill, Work/Life Hacking | Leave a comment

IMG_1875.jpegThriving plants lose green and sheen during harsh, cold times. Same with people.

Our friends at the WSJ recently delved into the heightened level of burnout happening throughout corporate America. To be sure, this story by Ray A. Smith is NOT new—and they research this stuff regularly—but the outlook keeps getting darker. Here are some choice bullets, from a Gallup survey of 200,000 workers…

• The # of people wanting to switch jobs is at a 10-year high.

• That’s higher than the ‘great resignation’ of 2020 – 2021

• 50% are actively seeking or watching for ways out

• Only 18% say that they are ‘extremely satisfied’

• The return to offices is unpopular with most

• ¾ of employers are in some phase of ‘disruption’—restructuring, selling, merging…

• Raises are down (median = 4.1% in ’24); folks feel penny-pinched

The risks here are many—basic but brutal burnout being the obvious. But on top of that, workers feel like they’re drowning in the nonstop uptick of meetings, messages, and tech interruptions in general. Work is turning us into unhappy robots.

Who hasn’t come to resent (if not just plain fear and hate) the world’s ever-increasing reliance screens, logins, and lack of service? Can you even use your own toilet anymore without a security check? This stuff kills productivity, and in the workplace chokes independence and creativity. Even smart companies are drowning in over-information and -technolization.

As for the “disruption” piece, well, that’s because private equity is buying up the world while we sleep and Congress all but encourages it. And if not that, companies keep squeezing and restructuring before the old rework gets a chance to…work.

That’s unfortunate, and does not bode well for this country, most investments, and above all, the people who make this complicated watch tick. A new red wave of burn-the-house down leadership will not add to stability or empathy.

BreakAways become more vital by the day. From unfulfilling jobs, of course, but when possible, from the whole scene. Save money. Maintain connections…and an open mind. Above all, don’t let WORK become a bigger life-kill than necessary.

Hold on to your goals to free your time, your mind, and your body—perhaps to somewhere far away for a while. Pretend you’re a cell phone and recharge.

Keep dreaming…and keep the faith.

FOTOFRIDAY: Happy Biffy Spiffy Holidays!

Posted on: Friday, December 6th, 2024
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Unexpected delights like a lovely wreath on a frozen porta-potty offer a fitting visual metaphor for the holiday season.

The neighbors’ porta-biffy is def spiffed up for the holidays. This helps us remember that the season, while festive, has ups and downs, sacred and profane, joy and melancholy, merriment and loneliness, and—around here—warm hearts and cold air. My stocking hat goes off to the hardy workers that toil outside ‘round the calendar. To them I say: Stay warm, and keep the faith.

BITN: Try New Things TODAY; Barcelona Sez NO!; Travel & CC’s UP!

Posted on: Tuesday, November 19th, 2024
Posted in: Rants & Roadkill, Sabbatical Shuffle, Spendology, BITN | One comment

IMG_1394.jpegBored? Burned-out? Over-booked? Give yourself a daily BreakAway and try something new TODAY!

These days, there’s always news about BreakAways. Here are a few that have been grabbing some eyeballs of late…

  • 30 Days to Living Free

Multi-media star Tabitha Brown needed more to do—or was feeling trapped in all she already had to do—so she came up with the idea (and book) I Did a New Thing: 30 Days to Living Free. Shrinks and other burn-out experts warn us that too much routine can = stress. And Brown’s book packs lots of easy ideas that remind us, to paraphrase George Clinton, to: Free you ass, and your mind will follow.

  • Barcelona Says ‘Go Home!’

Last summer (and now and then since), a group of protestors sporting water guns has been marching to protest the invasion of tourists. Can’t blame ‘em. I mean, when my daughter’s friends from different colleges decided to converge on one Euro metro for their international semester, that was their choice. (Yawn.)

Is the pushback working? Of course not. Barcelona’s tourism arm barraged the travel world with welcome notices. And both the country and city had big upswings this year. Still, it’s a cute idea. And if you’re planning to go there, pack a raincoat.

  • ‘Merrkuns Going Abroad More Than Ever

Beware, Barcelona. A national travel office reports that Americans in April trekked overseas 8% more than in 2023, and 106% more than in April 2019 (before Covid hit, right?). Confidence is back, right? Never mind the bloated airfare prices. So how to people do it? Read on…

About that Barcelona trip…remember also your credit card(s). That way, you can contribute to our inauspicious new record $1.17 TRILLION in CC debt, up 8% from a year ago. Our regular readers, both of them, know that BreakAway eschews debt and spits it out. But credit cards? At 29.99%? Well ,that’s sad, ridiculous, and should be illegal. Reminder: Mind your fiscal fitness?

FOTOFRIDAY: A Sunny San Fran Sojourn!

Posted on: Friday, November 8th, 2024
Posted in: Sabbatical Shuffle, Travelog, FOTOFRIDAY | 5 comments

IMG_1400.jpegIs the Golden Gate Bridge the most iconic ever? Probably. And maybe also the most photographed!

Sometimes, we end up going to places because of friends and family (and work). San Fran is great, though I’ve never left my heart there. This time? Maybe so. Visiting my son does that. And, for a change in my many BreakAways there, the sun was shining! Also in Carmel, where I trekked for a wedding. The GGB soars beautifully across the bay…yet is not so easy to photograph. Thanks to my boy’s excellent bike-tour skills, I got this shot, and saw many other cool things too. No wonder SF remains one of the world’s most popular tourist destinations…!…

FOTOFRIDAY: Gosh, I Finally Found Fargo!

Posted on: Friday, October 18th, 2024
Posted in: Travelog, FOTOFRIDAY | One comment

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The Bluestem Amphitheater in Moorhead, MN (just across the bridge from Fargo), intoxicates the mind, body, and ears with its stunning design and spot-on sightlines.

Yep, I finally got to Fargo, after all these years of only hearing about it and meeting countless souls from there or thereabouts. Ya sure, it’s a cool enough place, darn clean and rich. I saw a rare Sturgill Simpson show with 3,000 of my best friends—all gosh-darn friendly and happy to be there. Sturgill’s 3-hour set was A+ and the venue was among the best ever.

The next day, on the way home, I realized I’d left my credit card at the Toasted Frog Restaurant before the show. In some locales, that would spur panic. In Fargo, it’s no big deal. I called ‘em, and hey said, “Oh yeah, we’ll just mail it to ya.” In the land of alleged woodchippers, a laid-back vibe and proud honesty was palpable. And of course, my card hit the mailbox in just a few days.

Keep the faith.

Big Media Reports on Big BreakAways!

Posted on: Thursday, September 26th, 2024
Posted in: HR FYI, Sabbatical Shuffle, Work/Life Hacking | 2 comments

DSC_0250.jpegThis Swedish yacht—and countless young corporates—are ready to sail away on Sabbatical. 

Earlier this month, Apple News picked up a story from WSJ about our fave topic. For those (like myself) who have been preaching this gospel for 30 years, the article inspired both validation and woe—since that sort of fame has eluded me, though the sabbaticals themselves were the true motivation and most bounteous reward.

Penned by Cady North—an FA who recently completed her own 1-year hiking hiatus—“The Art of the Sabbatical” covers the usual challenges and costs, but with some freshly updated data, like…

• 80% of college students say that they’re open to time off or a volunteering break after graduation.

• If you make ~$90K/year and take one sabbatical per decade during your career, your IRA will likely be worth ~$650K less at age 65.

• So yes, these breaks may delay retirement!

• 6% of corporations offer paid sabbaticals, while 8% allow unpaid (Society for HRM).

  • But people often retire earlier than expected…

Who knows that the future of work looks like? Well, we have one hunch: VERY DIFFERENT THAN TODAY. So while younger workers rather assume they’ll work into their mid-60s or beyond, the truth is that, for some time now, folks are ditching careers much younger than their original life plan had mapped out.

So is the big leap worth the big risks? Well, this Think Tank thinks so. But we scream reminders (also mentioned in the article) to practice disciplined Fiscal Fitness like: Maximize retirement savings (when you can); live simply (when not celebrating); look for ways to stretch bucks when the travel time comes—like going where the dollar is strong, subletting the crib, and keeping an eye on return work options.

This crucial topic never really goes to sleep. Some of us who woulda shoulda coulda (and at times have) been the thought leaders admittedly take naps. But the dream never leaves the frontal lobes. It’s a daily curse…I mean blessing.

I might not be physically able…

Speaking of, while this writer still is mostly mobile, I MUST escape more time during the nasty MN winters. And see more of Portugal, Spain, and secret beaches. And, and, and… When I do, I’ll be sure and tell you all about it.

And maybe finally finish and publish one of MY books. Note to self: Keep the faith!

FOTOFRIDAY: Sacred Spaces That Forever Soar

Posted on: Friday, August 30th, 2024
Posted in: SoulTrain, Travelog, FOTOFRIDAY | 7 comments

IMG_0341.jpegHey! It’s not easy throwing a catchable friz while taking a competent pic—even for a lifetime photography and frisbee enthusiast!

Do you have special spaces that you visit whenever possible? I do. Sutherland Park is a large water reservoir/park—rather like a water tower but underground—in Sioux City. My friends and I spent 1,000s of hours there as I grew up. We tossed, played music and sang, watched shooting stars, or just gazed at the beautiful, rolling hillsides and sundowns..

I still walk there daily when in town, which has been a lot in recent years as my parents age in place with grace (and lots of bridge).

Daughter Elsa also tosses a mean frisbee, and is always game to hang out at the Park. Nearly 50 years of memories ride on that disc, and in the air, and I throw out some extra gratitude for life, friends, family, and preservation.

FOTOFRIDAY: Stung by APPLE!

Posted on: Friday, August 9th, 2024
Posted in: Rants & Roadkill, Unplugging, FOTOFRIDAY | Leave a comment

IMG_0374.jpegWatch out for bees. And A stands for Apple, and they can sting too.

So, it’s been 1.5 months since the last post. I could blame myself, and usually do. But in this case, Apple Computer reeeeallllly messed up. Like, 3 times+. So, after a fast crash—which probably happened because I did something a senior tech advisor told me to do (while others said DON’T!), it took them 3 tries and endless hours of crappy service to get me a $$$$ replacement.

I may tell the story in another post. But I’m not ready yet. Just mad and…trying to catch up and move on. Take care of your tech (as best you can!?!). Good luck with that! And of course…

Keep the faith.

Wanna Travel? Beware of Weather!

Posted on: Wednesday, June 26th, 2024
Posted in: Sabbatical Shuffle, Travelog | 2 comments
IMG_9666.jpegWelcome to Okoboji (Iowa), a legendary chain of lakes known for deep blue water, relaxation, and (frankly), outsized fun. A terrible flood is happening there. But for these girls, the party must go on…

I’ve been taking BreakAways to Okoboji all my life, sometimes several times a year—and including living and working there some college summers. So my love for the place runs deep.

Unfortunately, so does this year’s flooding—the worst since 1993, or the worst ever? Doesn’t really matter; the destruction and stench defy historical comparisons, also due to the overbuilding that has happened there and everywhere. Which results in more ruin, more dock boards floating everywhere, and more million$ in damage and cleanup. I can’t even envision the rebuild that lies ahead.

Of course, my beloved Okoboji is just one of dozens (countless?) locations getting slammed in the Midwest. Places I’ve known, lived, loved. One tries not to get too bummed out. But, dang, floods are just such a sloooow-acting, cruel catastrophe.

All to say, although the US airports broke customer records over Memorial Day weekend, remember this warning: Travel at your own risk. Nature is angry and turning many getaway dream trips into nightmares. Not to mention laughing at my summer Okoboji escape plans.

So watch the weather. Pack and prepare for the unexpected. Have a Plan B.

And keep the faith.

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