Tourism to USA is Crashing

Posted on: Thursday, March 12th, 2026
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IMG_5974.jpegMy son’s travel duffel sports the flag mementos of many nations, but may be taking an unfortunate break since travel now means taking off into increasingly unfriendly skies.

This story is everywhere, but deserves a serious look—albeit short, because it’s depressing and takes a tailspin into politics that are even more depressing. But brace yourself: The US is destroying a solid and previously evergreen tourism business worth $180 billion annually and supporting 1 million American jobs. Hmmm, I wonder why?

Because we ridicule other nations while raising chaotic tariffs that make routine business nearly impossible?

Because we break deals, shun NATO, pull aid funding, and have gone totally No More Mr. Nice Guy?

Because we threaten to take over Greenland, never mind that their steward nation of Denmark loyally fights alongside our military in wars; 43 Danish soldiers died in Afghanistan alone.

Because we tease and piss off Canada? That especially hurts in Minnesota, as Canadians are our #1 tourism source—representing 55% of our international guests—and spending around $150 million in 2024, which was a 24% decrease from 2023.

Because we may soon require visitors to provide up to 5 years of social media history, among other bizarre and intimidating steps to entry?

Because major markets like Germany and France have updated their travel advisories to include America while warning of risks that include political violence and immigration enforcement?

Well, those are SOME of the reasons. And there are so many more. Meanwhile, America hosts the FIFA soccer tournament in 11 cities this year and celebrates a 250th anniversary. In the olden days—which now feel like golden days—those events would have brought countless guests and dignitaries from all over the world, all spending lavishly.

Instead, people like the former president of FIFA have called for an international boycott of the FIFA tournament because of violence by ICE…who may be prowling the games with guns in tow, no?

Oh yeah, and then there’s that invasion of Iran. Our nation goes relatively unscathed (besides ratcheting gas prices and related inflation that will arrive soon). But in much of the world, the effects of this “war” are much worse, and hitting people’s pocketbooks, if not schoolyards.

When you piss off most of the world’s people, they stop liking and visiting you.

If that’s the tone for travel for the time being, I don’t much feel like flying anywhere. Folks I know who are traveling abroad describe receiving nearly-violent receptions upon mere introductions. Others retell the common tale of international hosts routinely asking, “What the f*ck is going on over there?”

Who knows? But please wake me when it’s over. And the TSA is funded and functioning again. And the Ugly American goes to the bathroom and we lock him in there. And… And… And…

This could take a while.

So if BreakAway shifts to highlighting other forms of escapism—think saunas, live music, nature breaks, nearby diversions—please play along. Such rather fits my aging carcass and slower, simpler lifestyle, anyway…verklempt though it may feel be to admit that.

The world is still a beautiful place. But sometimes one’s world must get smaller to stay saner.

FOTOFRIDAY: Do it Today…& Watch Your Step

Posted on: Friday, March 6th, 2026
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IMG_5804.jpegAs one who’s suffered two severe accidents that took a year (each) to recover, I always hurt for—and cheer on—people who must endure life-changing health events.

This lovely couple lives down the street from me. They came here from another country, and I’ve always admired their perpetual smiles and daily walks. They just seem more spiritual than most of us.

So my heart frowned when they disappeared for a while. And months later re-appeared with a slow gait, though now speeding up gradually. Cardio event? Stroke? Other? I still don’t know, but am so pleased to see them out again.

Savor today. As Kirby Puckett said in his way-too-early retirement speech, “Don’t take it for granted, because tomorrow is not promised to any of us.”

Even when the road seems longer, keep walking. And keep the faith.

The Aspirational Clutter Conundrum

Posted on: Thursday, February 12th, 2026
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IMG_5785.jpegJust a fraction of the books collection that keeps growing and growing. What am I supposed to do with them all!?!

Look at those books. Pretty cool, huh? I often receive them as gifts, and somehow have acquired stacks of them (har!). But that’s exactly the problem. I’m gradually moving on, you see, and someday moving out of my lovely but oversized house. What’s more, I really don’t sit around reading, or even fondling, most of this heavy lit. I’m not alone.

  • We are less than our stuff

Washpost recently took on this topic, and (naturally) there are plenty of consultants, coaches, and books (YAY!) about this common mess. In brief, most of us harbor a tendency to acquire stuff that represents our aspirations, whether or not we use those THINGS or achieve those goals. Think: Cook wear, exercise equipment, hobby gear, BOOKS.

Since you don’t want to take this subject on as an additional aspiration, here are a few quick pointers from the experts in this stuff…

  • Making the purge can feel like losing a part of yourself, but…is that the real YOU?
  • Why waste the time and $ if you lack a real commitment?
  • If you can’t toss, relegate each category to one container/pile. Set a deadline to use it…or lose it.
  • Expect some emotional pushback—and embrace any sadness or failure feelings.
  • Rejoice in the new space, cleanliness, and emotional closure.

For years, BreakAway has preached the gospel of being ever-ready for the opportunity to get unplugged from life’s burdens to get out, get away, and get a bigger adventure from your limited time here. I’m learning, of course, that it’s easier to preach than practice. In truth, I certainly am not the travel rock star I used to be. But there’s still hope, right?

It’s starts tonight with eliminating some books. Good news: My local library happily collects them for fundraiser book-sales. That means someone else can take over my aspirations, and my clutter.

Who knows? Maybe they’ll actually even read my books!

FOTOFRIDAY: Ice Has Invaded Our State

Posted on: Friday, February 6th, 2026
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We wish they’d go away.

FOTOFRIDAY: Rest. Patience. Peace.

Posted on: Friday, January 9th, 2026
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Just another beautiful sundown scene from warmer, better days.

ICE is in town raising hell. This week, an ICE agent shot a woman in Minneapolis. Some mourn, some cheer, all of us are hurting. On the streets, the ice is slippery, dangerous. It’s been that kind of winter—dark clouds, rain, sleet, slips and falls, apprehension and death in the air. Time moves slowly sometimes, but this will end—the dangerous chill, the numbness, the ice.

Keep the faith.

FOTOFRIDAY: A Foggy Sacred Space

Posted on: Friday, January 2nd, 2026
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IMG_5466.jpegSacred spaces come in all shapes and places…

Sutherland Park in Sioux City has made these pages before, because every time I’m home visiting the parents, I BreakAway daily to this beautiful relic of what used to be a buried water tank to serve the neighborhood. It’s also a park—a large, private square block atop a high hill that overlooks 3 states and more.

My friends and I gathered there routinely for decades, and still do when in town, which happens not so much as most long ago moved on and the years fly by. Frisbees, guitars, beers, lawn chairs, boom boxes, sundowns, and friends. Don’t cost nothin’. Life feels great. And the memories never fade, no matter how thick the fog.

FOTOFRIDAY: How Do You Like Your Steak?

Posted on: Friday, December 19th, 2025
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Nice camel, though those probably aren’t the humps most men see first.

I’m no prude, and generally maintain that people are going to do what they wanna, regardless of the morality police and local cops. But when I read that Peter Hafiz, the gentleman behind most of the seedy, sexy establishments in Minneapolis, wanted to open a topless steakhouse, even my eyebrows rose. He died recently, and most people spoke very highly of him—as happens when people pass, yet the comments seemed entirely sincere.

Then I happened onto this picture from early last year, when I again found myself in Vegas to watch my son play for the Raiders. Now I remember: Signs for that “strip” club were all over. But then again, it’s Las Vegas. Perhaps that’s where Mr. Hafiz got the idea.

Music Works Magic on Alzheimer’s

Posted on: Thursday, December 11th, 2025
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IMG_8658.jpegMarilyn Maye may be 97, but still mesmerizes crowds nationwide (and me, holding her hand) with her delightful songs, stories, and stage presence. (Photo date: 12-5-25)

BreakAway traditionally preaches about the benefits of long-term travel and other escapes from the routine shuffle., AKA career breaks. But of equal importance: Finding the routine hobbies and habits that make the daily grind more meaningful and enjoyable.

For me, nothing beats music for that salve. Listening to the background tunes also helps fight back against my stubborn and annoying tinnitus—highly recommended!

And of course, nothing beats live music—like Ms. Maye’s performance in the photo. We go WAAAY back, having worked together in nightclubs in the 1980s. And I still see her here, in Okoboji, and beyond at least 3 times each year. She’s still got IT, has been featured on CBS Sunday Morning twice, and was on the Johnny Carson show a record 76 times…

This begs the question: What will YOU be doing when you’re 97!?!

Let there be songs to fill the air

— Grateful Dead

The media recently broke a story about a study that suggests that listening to music consistently decreases your risk of Alzheimer’s by 39%, while also improving cognitive memory skills.

Playing an instrument regularly also helps, with a 33% decrease in dementia risk and 22% in cognitive impairment.

What’s more, the study found that playing music for people already dealing with dementia (and throughout life, for that matter) does lots to help with processing emotions, boosting imagination and mood, and easing stress. Nursing home residents who often listen to music they like from their past have less incidents of agitation and aggression.

So…Listen up! You’ll feel better now, and again in the golden years when you may have memory problems. And while you’re at it, why not uncase that old guitar and pick away?

FOTOFRIDAY: Remembering Independence Day on Grenada

Posted on: Friday, November 21st, 2025
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DSC_0991.jpegThe beautiful Caribbean island of Grenada finally achieved their independence on February 2, 1974. Less than 10 years later, U.S. troops invaded.

You know, it’s funny how perusing old pictures doesn’t always conjure up the same memories and responses. Exhibit A: Being a part of Independence Day festivities on Grenada in February 2009 was a blast, while also bringing an education of the youth and fragility of their nation, which left U.K. rule on February 7, 1974.

In less than 10 years (1983), US troops invaded Grenada to quash a Cuban-tied coup.

Dubbed “Operation Urgent Fury,” that effort became Mission Accomplished in a mere 8 days—and yet left scars and wide-ranging opinions about Americans. This pic takes me to the giddy celebrating and the impassioned conversations about politics, America, and war. Naturally, some people didn’t much like me and my family—simply because of our homeland. Some still wanted to be tied to Cuba; Fidel Castro posters remained a common sight.

Lately, Trump’s idea is to torment the Caribbean-tangent nation of Venezuela via “Operation Southern Spear,” with goals of curtailing drug flow. So far, we have about 12 Navy ships and 12,000 sailors and marines down there—and have killed at least 83 people in 21 attacks on boats allegedly hauling contraband. Meanwhile, the U.S. has offered a $50 million reward for the capture of their rogue leader, President Nicolas Maduro.

They say a picture paints 1,000 words. This picture feels more like 50,000,000. I adored my time in Grenada. But today, I’m grateful to be nowhere near Venezuela.

FOTOFRIDAY: Be Afraid, Be Very Afraid…

Posted on: Friday, October 31st, 2025
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IMG_4885.jpegI recommend carving out some time with family & friends every late October to bring pumpkins to life. Who knew these orange orbs had so much personality hiding inside?

According to the National Retail Federation, Americans will spend a frightening $13.1 billion on Halloween this year. That’s an average of $114 per person. And we wonder why we feel pinched! Oh well, people need a Breakaway from their routine and persona. I mean, who doesn’t love pretending you’re someone else for an evening? Even these lowly pumpkins agree…!…